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Hey! Just Go Get a Job!

Somehow, so far, I have survived the ax, even after a close call spring 2010.  At that time I was informed my position was planned for elimination due to budget cuts.  I felt an odd mixture of relief, anger, and gratitude.

I felt relief, as the situation was extraordinarily crazy. I was logging 70 plus hours a week and always on call – but hey it was a paycheck during a time when the papers daily reported new rounds of layoffs; Anger, due to the time, stress, training I had put into the position to be an effective employee, and in the end it was not going to make a difference; Gratitude, because I was given a 3 month notice.  I know other folks who after years of hard work, long hours, and loyalty were given less than a day to put their stuff in a box and escorted off the company property like a criminal.

Thankfully, I was transferred to another department and remain employed working with a fantastic group of people.  Daily, I take time to sit in gratitude, acknowledge the fact that I have a job, benefits, paid sick leave,vacation time, decent shelter, and food. I don’t, at this time, have to make a choice between seeking medical help and putting food on the table for my family.  But as I learned in spring 2010, that could change at any time. Even with benefits, a medical condition could wipe me out financially.  I have a strong work ethic, education, and reputation, as do the other thousands of people who have been laid off.  Did I just get lucky?  Is that what this is – the ax starts swinging and some are on the chopping block and others are not?

The stories of so many other folks – not so pretty (or lucky, if luck has anything whatsoever to do with this deplorable situation).   I have many women friends who are looking for work.  Two were laid off.  The other three are women who made the choice to take a back seat to their husband’s careers while they allocated a greater percentage of time at the home front with their children. Three marriages ended in divorce, and the ex-husbands have gone on to nice paying jobs and careers.  The women, all college educated are struggling.  They are incredibly bright, talented, dynamic women who want to work and contribute.  Two of them are working for $8.00 an hour now, with no benefits, grateful to have a job, but with their talents extremely under-utilized.

My one friend was diligent in pursuing a college education even as they relocated at least 4 times so her husband could tend to his career.  She tried to stay viable, worked part-time positions outside the home, as well as crafted opportunities with companies that allowed her to work at home.  Now divorced, she opted to stay in the family home to finish raising their teenage children. You know, continuity of school and community for her children; items deemed to be important by the Family First/Value rhetoric of our Legislators.   Her ex-husband relocated to  another state to accept lucrative employment.  A career forged due to the fact his wife managed the children and household so he could focus on his job, travel, and training opportunities.

A year later and with over 206 applications submitted she is still unemployed.  The result is to watch an extremely dynamic, competent, intelligent women nearly have a breakdown due to the stress, uncertainty and feelings of being invisible, inadequate as well as lose confidence in her abilities.  On food stamps and the house on the edge of the foreclosure process, she has panic attacks as she worries about being out on the street.   I worry she is going to have a heart attack from the stress. In the midst of all this she gets to endure deplorable comments, listed below, and from allegedly educated people.

  •  “It is her own fault for not staying together with her husband – they should have worked it out.”
  •  “Look she has a big screen TV, so you know they were living past their budget in the first place.”
  • “She should have gone to college right out of high school, and then she would have a better shot at a job or career.”
  •   “Why don’t you have your children go live with their dad, while you get yourself and your life together?”  (One has to wonder if the dad receives any commentary on his choices – such as “Why didn’t you find a job in Idaho so you could be closer to your kids and help out?”)
  •  “Why can’t you just get a job, oh, it is because you really want to remain on unemployment.”
  •   “Hey – just go get a job!”
  •  “Hey – you could get a job if you really wanted one!”

I know plenty of people, married and unmarried that did it the alleged “right way, made the right choices.”  They went to college out of high school, budgeted, saved, made substantial down payments on their homes, did not run up credit cards, lived within a budget, and had solid retirement plans.  They lost their jobs due to outsourcing.  Loyalty, ethics, hard work were repaid with, “Here is box for your stuff, you have an hour to gather things up.” They sought jobs while depleting their savings.  Many tapped into retirement money trying to keep their homes.  Many suffered through foreclosure or bankruptcy.  A painful irony is the debacle of all the displaced families with no homes, while rows of houses sit empty.

I am at a loss of how to end this blog post.  It is painful to watch good, hardworking people struggle, and lives unravel. The robber barons continue to flaunt their wealth and are not held accountable for their actions. The effect of unemployment is debilitating, and is certainly not something they dreamed of living through when contemplating what they wanted to be when they grew up.


January 10, 2012 Posted by | Oddments Editorial | Leave a comment